Day 3: What are your top five pet peeves?

1. People who are liars, they don’t tell the truth!
2. Men who are cheaters, I guess that can full under the liar category.
3. I don’t like it when someone says nothing is wrong but it sitting around looking depressed, that’s lying right?
4. Selfish people, people who only care about themselves and then want to complain and say that don’t nobody care about them!
5. When someone (a child) ask me something and I give them a answer and their response is “Why” so I guess my pet peeve is someone who talks back…

Until we meet again….xoxo

Day 2: Where would you like to be in 10 years?

The future belongs to those who prepare for it today. - Malcolm X

10 years from now I will be 39 turning 40. I would like to see myself, living in a house, happily married to a God fearing Christian man with 2 kids, a boy and a girl. I would like to be teaching criminal justice at a college level, and still teaching 8^th graders (or High School). 

My relationship with God will be stronger then ever. I would like to be doing a marriage ministry with my husband since I believe that is some type of calling over my life. I am hoping that I would be writing my second book and that my 1^st book was on the New York Times Best Sellers list.

I can dream and dream about where I want be in 10 years but am I really going to get there? Am I going to be married by 39 or am I going to be single for the rest of my life? Is it my calling to be single for the rest of my life? If I am going to be single and not married am I going to still have my own kids or is adoption an option?

So many questions not enough answers….until we meet again…xoxo

Day 1: Discuss your current relationship

Discuss my current relationship? What? Single! Yes I am 29 and single, that’s my current relationship. I am not married, I am single! I am not in a committed relationship, I am single! I am not dating any one at the time, I am single! That is my current relationship. Next….

As a single woman who is interested in the thought of dating, or being in a relationship, my mind wonders am I really ready for that? Ready to put in the time and effort to date someone, show that person that I am truly something serious, that I can be his rib, his Ruth, his Virtuous Wife. Do I really have the time and energy for that with all that is on my plate? Working on my relationship with God, Grad School, Dutch, Work, My “Little,” Losing weight and keeping up with all my Shanda Rhimes shows (yes it’s that serious). Have I lived the life of a true single woman who has lived the life?!

Being 29, single with no kids does make me start to wonder of the possibilities, but I haven’t even made it to Paris yet, am I ready to fall head over hills for Boaz when I am not sure if I am ready for a relationship. Some days I desire for that man companionship, but do I truly want it?!? Do I truly want to be in a relationship or do I want to be single for the rest of my life….